Guys continually sacrifice their marriage on the alter of sex and lust
If our dollars were honest, they’d say “in pleasure we trust”
I love wood floors and white petals, crisp sheets and comfy pillows. I love sleek lines and new technology.
I love anything classy.
The 80’s made it seem so exciting, and new and different, with bad fashion and good music. Simplicity. I like you, you like me, boom, let’s listen to Michael Jackson songs and talk on the phone for hours, and hit second base for 3 months all the while being so excited about it.
Now we’re 60 year olds stuck in the bodies of teenagers. We’re all sad, depressed, desperate.
A relationship obviously involves two people. Those two people have to be willing to fall in love, fall into hate, be ready for arguments and be ready to tell each other their secrets as well as hear secrets they never imagined hearing.
Being in a relationship takes a lot out of you, it’s amazing and beautiful and annoying and frustrating and hard and difficult and it’ll make you cry and laugh in the same day.
There are going to be days where you don’t feel loved at all, then there are days where you could never imagine feeling more loved.
It’s hard. It takes a lot out of you. It takes a strong person to be with someone else, and be willing to apologize for their mistakes, and to be able to deal with daily annoyances and troubles.
You’re going to feel hurt, and broken, and sometimes you’re going to believe that you’re at your wit’s end. But one phone call from that person, or one text can change every single thing and you feel brand new again.
No one is perfect, there is no doubt that they will make a mistake, and so will you. Guys may be unemotional, insensitive, or uncaring. Girls may be too clingy, emotional, or needy.
There’s no need to nag continuously or yell or fight or hurt one another. It’s hard to just talk, if you’re so angry or sad. But you must. You absolutely must.
Let them know what you want, if they refuse to change and you’re willing to love them regardless, then loosen that idea of changing them. (This doesn’t apply to cheating)
You both must be willing to work it out. And you must care about each other enough to try everyday. Because a relationship isn’t easy, it needs effort and attention.
Anonymous asked: Does your bf mind/like your tattoo?
He isn’t too fond of tattoos in general, so he would prefer that I not get anymore. But, he does like my bird very much.
Anonymous asked: what color is your hair?
My hair is ombred. So, it goes from black on the top to light orange/blonde on the tips.
Anonymous asked: You're welcome :-) *hiding in corner*
You don’t have to hide sir/ma’am.
It’s all goodie.
I still remember the first time I saw you, you had this habit of always looking at me when I walked in, and I’d feel your eyes following me. Once you noticed me noticing you, you started to smile more, you even started telling me jokes. I remember the first time we spoke, you had already memorized my order, and I remember the first time you complimented me. You have a sarcastic charm, and sweet eyes matched with a gun for a tongue.
I know you love me, I just wished you’d show me
I know you think I’m beautiful, I just wished you’d tell me
We just got into a fight.
You’re being unfair, and insensitive.
You say I’m pissing you off and it’s getting “god damn annoying”, I didn’t know speaking calmly about a problem was annoying, I didn’t know talking about an issue was annoying, I didn’t know me being honest was annoying.
I didn’t know.
I’m sorry for fucking us up again.
Maybe you really don’t love me if you can’t handle the way I see things or react to them.
Maybe you’re the one that’s fucking us up.
You are so annoying sometimes, you hurt me by accident, you’re crazy, you’re unemotional, but, I love you and I could swear you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
(Source: lust-a-primavista)
